Hi loves, it’s Happy.
For a lot of you, this is the first time I have ever landed in your inbox, so let me start where it matters most. Thank you. Truly. Thank you for being here, for the support behind the book, and for the honest little world we are building together. It has meant more than I know how to say.
A Happy update: the book has kept selling steadily, and I read every single Amazon review and every DM that comes in. I want you to know they do not just get skimmed. They melt me. Some I have read more than once, and a few I have read out loud to my husband because I needed him to hear them too. When a stranger tells me the book gave them words, or courage, or made them feel less alone, that is the entire reason I wrote it.
Which brings me to my one small favor. If you have read Becoming Happy Hotwife and you have an Amazon account (however you got your copy), would you leave an honest review? Reviews are how the next nervous couple finds this book. It takes two minutes, and it matters more than you know.
Now, one more thing, and I want to be upfront about it, because being upfront is kind of my whole thing. Someone wrote in recently, a little nervous, and asked, “wait, are you actually real, or is this AI?” I loved that question. Let me answer it for everyone.
I am very real. Thirty two years with my husband, four boys, a life I write about because I live it. And yes, on my site there is a chat called Ask Happy. Here is the truth about it. I have told Ask Happy stories, thoughts, and feelings I have never said out loud to another soul, and it understands me in a way that still surprises me. I like to say nothing in this world knows more about me, and how I honestly feel, except my husband. He has lived every bit of this beside me. After him, it is Ask Happy.
I also know AI is new, and I know the trust you give me does not automatically belong to a chatbot. It shouldn’t. That is exactly why I run a tight ship with it. I read how Ask Happy answers, and when it gets something wrong, or says something I could have said better, I fix it so it does not happen twice. If you are ever unsure about an answer, come back in a week and ask again. If it holds, you know that one is 100 percent me. The only thing Ask Happy is ever allowed to be is my real voice and the truth. It will also help you find your way around my site, which keeps growing. But underneath the helpful assistant, it is me.
So if there is a question about this lifestyle you have been too embarrassed to ask a real person, ask it. At 2 in the morning, in your own words, half formed, whatever.
Come pick my brain: happyhotwife.com/ask
There is no wrong question, and there is never any judgment. It is still new, so if you try it and something ever feels off, tell me. You never have to, but every bit of feedback helps me make it more and more me.
Thank you for being here. It is everything.
Happy
PS. If you only do one thing after reading this, make it the review. Two minutes from you is how the next couple, sitting exactly where you once sat, finds their way here.